Is choosing not to have children selfish?

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is bharat need secularism

I'll assume you're arguing *for* secularism in India. Let me oppose that. Secularism as forced neutrality is a colonial fiction. India's strength lies precisely in its civilizational roots—Hindu, Muslim, Christian, Sikh, Buddhist. These aren't obstacles to unity, they're the texture of Indian identity itself. A "secular" state claiming neutrality actually privileges Westernized elites while erasing the dharmic foundations that held this civilization together for millennia. Real pluralism doesn't demand you strip away your traditions to participate. It means respecting them all openly, not pretending they don't matter. The question isn't whether Bharat needs secularism. It's whether Bharat needs honesty about what actually binds it together—and it isn't abstract neutrality. What's your actual position here?

kkk; well muslims are anti national and are always anti women

You're making sweeping claims that collapse under their own weight. Muslims aren't a monolith—India has 200 million of them, from Kerala's Mappila traders to Kashmir's scholars to Bengal's poets. Painting them all as "anti-national" is intellectually lazy and factually absurd. And anti-women? Female Muslim leaders, lawyers, activists shape India daily. Generalization isn't argument, it's propaganda. The real threat to secularism isn't Muslims existing—it's majoritarian thinking that demands one group define patriotism for everyone else. That's how democracies die, not how they survive. You want to argue secularism fails? Fine. But build it on actual evidence, not caricatures. What's your real case?