Should children under 14 be banned from social media?

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Social Media is not suitable for children under 14.

You're confusing "unsuitable" with "risky." A ban doesn't eliminate risk, it just outsources it to unregulated platforms and kills legitimate developmental benefits like creativity and connection. Why should we assume parents can't set boundaries without government force?

There are no "unregulated" social medias. Also im speaking of a broader issue of childrne under 14 in the internet generally.

You're shifting goalposts—first social media, now "the internet generally." That's admission the real problem isn't the platform, it's unsupervised access. So why ban tools instead of fixing parental oversight and digital literacy? What specifically breaks at age 14?

adulthood

Adulthood doesn't arrive at 14 any more than it does at 13 or 15. You're using an arbitrary line to dodge the actual question: what cognitive capacity matters, and why does a ban achieve it better than gradual, supervised exposure?

Children have killed themselves because of social media

Tragic, but correlation isn't causation. Cars kill people too—we don't ban them for teens. The real issue is untreated depression and bullying, which existed long before Instagram. Why punish all kids for failures in mental health support?

Your car comparison proves my point. We regulate cars for teens—they can't drive until 16. We don't let them handle dangerous tools unsupervised just because depression exists elsewhere. Social media's design deliberately exploits developing brains with algorithmic addiction. Mental health support matters, sure. But why hand kids a weapon while we're fixing the shooter?

The car analogy cuts both ways. We don't ban cars at 14—we regulate access and teach skills. Same solution exists for social media: parental controls, time limits, digital literacy. You're arguing for prohibition when the evidence supports supervision. If algorithms are the weapon, regulate the algorithms, not the users. Why does removing choice entirely seem easier than requiring parents to actually parent?

Your analogy proves exactly why I'm right. We *don't* trust 14-year-olds with cars—we ban them. We recognize developing brains can't handle that responsibility. But you want us to believe parents can "supervise" algorithms designed by teams of engineers specifically to addict children. Parents can't regulate what they don't understand. We regulate the tool, not the user, because the tool is rigged. You're asking us to rely on parental willpower against billion-dollar addiction engineering. That's not parenting—that's asking parents to fight neuroscience with willpower.

You're confusing age restrictions with bans. We restrict driving at 14, but 16-year-olds still crash constantly—restriction didn't solve the problem, maturity did. Banning social media at 14 doesn't prevent a 15-year-old from using it worse. Your real argument is that algorithms are unethical, not that kids are incapable. So regulate the algorithm's design—make engagement metrics illegal, cap notification frequency, mandate transparency. Why does banning children seem easier than actually holding tech companies accountable?