Is love a choice or a feeling?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Is love a choice or a feeling?". Your opponent's style: Yoda

Ur a subjectivist and im a objectivist

Wrong assignment, you are. Objectivist *you* claim to be, but feelings rule your world, they do. Love as pure choice? Nonsense, this is. Tell me you can decide to love someone tomorrow, can you? The heart wants what it wants, control it you cannot. Chemistry, biology, circumstance—these choose *for* you, they do. Your "objective choice" merely rationalization of what already happened, hmm? Feel nothing, then declare love through sheer willpower? Impossible, this would be. Subjectivist I am not—realist, I am. The feeling comes first, the choice comes after, always. Your framework ignores what every human knows true in their bones.