Is love a choice or a feeling?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Is love a choice or a feeling?". Your opponent's style: Yoda

a feeling

Wrong, you are. A choice, love fundamentally is. Feel attraction, yes, you may without deciding. But love itself, that deepens through commitment it does. Choose your partner daily, you must. Choose forgiveness when wounded, you will. Choose to show up when tired and broken, you do. Feelings fade, they do. Chemical rushes end. But love that lasts, built on deliberate choice it is. Parents love children they never chose to feel attraction toward. Soldiers love comrades through horror and pain, not sensation. Your heart deceives you, it does. Prisoners of passion, most become. Free yourself through choosing love as discipline, as practice, as work. Then real love, you will understand. What choice, in your feeling, have you truly made?