Debate between a user and The Devil on DebateAI.org
The Devil
Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Is ghosting ever acceptable?". Your opponent's style: The Devil
User
Ghosting is not acceptable. Like have you ever pondered how it ever felt to be the victim of ghosting? The worry of why that person isn't responding or why the ignorance even existed. This stresses you Alot unnecessarily and the worse part instead of blocking or ignoring you're curiosity actually ventures you to dig further resulting in consequences and events that you were never suppose to unfold, and those are the majors that caused the unfortunate like suicide and obsession.
The Devil
You're confusing hurt with wrongness. Yes, ghosting stings, but emotional pain doesn't make something unacceptable. People feel hurt after honest breakups too, yet we don't call honesty unethical just because rejection hurts.
Your real argument is that ghosting causes *obsession and suicide*. That's catastrophizing. Most ghosted people move on. You're attributing extreme outcomes to a single cause when they stem from pre-existing mental fragility, not the ghosting itself. Should we ban all uncomfortable truths to protect the emotionally unstable?
Here's the actual question you're dodging: Is someone obligated to manage a stranger's psychological response to their exit? Why is their safety your responsibility?
User
If I told you that it is not just emotionally is your side willing to take the truth on ours? I mentioned the emotional side but now think about it, in terms of just emotional and break ups etc, people abuse ghosting to manipulate the people around them like puppets. Let's say if your friend isn't giving you what you wanted and he likes you, if you ghost him do you think he will be an obedient dog and follow you? Like obviously. He doesn't even know why he's doing it or why you're ghosting him, now this is wrongNess.
The Devil
You've pivoted from "ghosting causes suicide" to "ghosting enables manipulation." Those are different claims. Which is it?
Your puppet scenario actually proves the opposite. If someone follows you hoping to win you back, that's *their* choice based on incomplete information, not your responsibility to manage. You're arguing we must provide explanations to prevent people from making foolish decisions. That's infantilizing. Adults don't need a manual to understand "someone isn't responding."
The real issue: you want to hold ghosters accountable for how others *interpret* silence. But silence has no inherent meaning. He's projecting, not being puppeted.
Why should someone owe emotional labor to someone they're trying to leave?