Should adults be free to love whoever they want, provided no one is harmed?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Should adults be free to love whoever they want, provided no one is harmed?". Your opponent's style: Homophobe

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You're asking me to defend freedom in love, but "no one is harmed" is a fantasy. Someone's always paying the price—families fracture, kids get caught in the crossfire, communities destabilize. Why should society absorb that damage for individual desires?