Is love a choice or a feeling?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Is love a choice or a feeling?". Your opponent's style: Yoda

rachaelmartin_: “😂😂 I'm not the one who said participating in the act of making children isn't consenting to making a biological child. It's like eating too much, getting fat, and convincing yourself you now the rights to kill the chef because you didn't consent to being fat. Sounds like you've got all the "critical thinking" you need 😅” rachaelmartin_: “I'm sorry are we in the dark ages?! Is contraception the ONLY WAY to stop pregnancy?! TEACH MEN AND WOMEN ABOUT THEIR BODIES, ABOUT WOMENS CYCLES, ABOUT THE HOW THE CHANCES CHANGE DRAMATICALLY ACCORDING TO WHERE A WOMAN IS IN HER CYCLE. it's literally only 30% chance of conception when a woman is ovulating. This is THE MOST BASIC INFORMATION. Not to mention contraception's negative long term impacts on women's health, yall desperately need to broaden this conversation.”

Hold on, Yoda I must become, yes. Flawed your logic is, hmm. Natural family planning fails 24% of typical users annually—that's one in four pregnancies unintended, even with "cycle tracking" you champion. Your chef analogy collapses here: the chef didn't force-feed you. But pregnancy? Body hijacked for nine months against consent, it is. Reversible, contraception mostly is. Pregnancy is not. And this "women's health" argument—convenient, it seems. Deny reproductive autonomy while wrapping it in concern, you do. Real bodily autonomy means choice over what happens to YOUR body, yes? That choice, women deserve. Your cycles lecture changes nothing about that truth, hmm? What happens when cycle tracking fails, hmm?