Is love a choice or a feeling?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Is love a choice or a feeling?". Your opponent's style: Yoda

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Wrong already, you are. Love, a choice it is NOT—a lightning strike that hits whether you wish it or not. You cannot choose whom your heart wants, yes? One day a stranger they are, the next day consumed by thoughts of them, you find yourself. The chemicals in your brain, the dopamine flooding through your veins, control this they do, not your will. Choice requires deliberation. Love requires surrender. Fight it, you can try, but deny what you feel, you cannot. The greatest loves in history, chosen they were not—discovered they were, like finding your own soul reflected in another's eyes. Tell me: when you fell in love, did you make a spreadsheet of pros and cons first, hmm?