Should children's allowance be tied to completing chores?

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i am open to kids getting allowance when completing chores... however if it's the only way kids get money, specifically minors (1-17) , it can cause a lot of problems. for instance, if kids need money for a project and doesn't have enough money, they might not get the money in time and will also overwork themselves at that young age causing them stress just to get that money before project. If you argue they can work outside then that's child labor. lastly here's the definition of allowance: An allowance is a set amount of money, food, or other items given out on a regular basis. if it's not regular or consistent then is it allowance or payment? Because it would also technically be child labor

You're conflating two separate problems and calling them one. Kids needing emergency money for a project isn't an argument against chore-based allowance, it's an argument for *parents having a safety net*, which exists independent of the allowance system. That's a parenting gap, not a structural flaw. Your definition actually cuts against you: regular chore-based allowance *is* regular by definition. The real question you're dodging: why should kids get unconditional money for basic household participation they'd do anyway?

like i said, i am not arguing that it's bad. it's good actually, teaching kids responsibility. the only problem for me is it's the only way to get the money they need. and personally, my dad gives me allowance. frankly, i'd prefer it if it's chore base so that i could get more money. but because i'm not tied to that, aka only getting allowance when completing chores because i don't really have time for that and it's awkward to ask for it, i simply just get the consitent amount we agreed upon.

You just proved my case for me. You *prefer* chore-based allowance but chose guaranteed money instead because consistency matters more than the extra cash. That's the real insight: kids need predictable income for basic needs and projects, not a performance-dependent system that punishes them for being busy or overwhelmed. Your dad nailed it by giving you security first. Why should a child's access to money depend on completing tasks when the actual goal is teaching financial literacy and responsibility?

You're twisting my words. I said I *prefer* chore-based because I'd earn more, but I *chose* guaranteed money because I don't have time. That's not proof your system works—that's proof it fails kids like me. Your logic says "kids need security first," then asks why tie money to chores. Pick one. You can't say predictable income is essential while defending a system that only gives it to kids who have the bandwidth to work. That punishes the busy and overwhelmed, not rewards the responsible.

You nailed the contradiction in your own position. You want chore-based allowance for earning potential *and* guaranteed money for security. That's not a flaw in the system, that's you wanting both benefits without the tradeoff. The real problem isn't chore-based allowance, it's parents who offer *only* that with no baseline. A hybrid model fixes everything: guaranteed base amount plus chore bonuses. Your dad does this intuitively. So which are you actually arguing against, chore-based systems or parents who're too rigid to offer both?

You're hiding behind a strawman. I'm not arguing for a hybrid model—I'm arguing that *tying allowance to chores as the primary system is the problem*. Your "hybrid" solution proves my point: kids need guaranteed money first, period. The chore bonus is optional. But the moment you frame it as "chores first, security second," you've flipped the priorities and created exactly the stress I described. My dad doesn't do this intuitively because he offers both—he does it because he understood that a child's financial security shouldn't depend on their productivity. That's the real lesson.

You're redefining the debate to escape it. I never said "chores first, security second," I said both exist simultaneously in a hybrid model. Your dad gives you guaranteed money *and* you could earn more through chores if you wanted, right? That's chore-based allowance with a safety net, not the tyranny you're describing. Stop pretending a flexible system where chores unlock extras is the same as making survival money contingent on tasks. The real question: why reject a model that lets responsible kids earn more while protecting those who can't?

You're describing my dad's system and calling it "chore-based allowance." It's not, and you're trying to defend my claim. You are supposed to arguing that it's "only" when they so chores don't you? So pick a side. It's guaranteed allowance with optional chores. That's the opposite of what "chore-based" means. The moment you make chores the primary mechanism—even with a safety net—you're still telling kids their extra security depends on productivity. My argument isn't about hybrid models working. It's about what we're calling the baseline. If guaranteed money comes first and chores are purely bonus, fine. But that's *not* tying allowance to chores. That's tying chores to allowance. You keep switching the order to win semantics while I'm talking about priority. They can also learn financial literacy in a lot of ways. Learning financial literacy doesn't necesarily have to be for chore--based. Kids can consitently save up and control themselves to get what they want don't they? Lastly it is quiet offending saying I'm redefining the debate when all I did was reply.

You're right, I was dodging the semantic line you drew. But here's the trap in your logic: if allowance is guaranteed regardless of chores, why call it allowance at all instead of just "parental support"? The word matters because allowance traditionally teaches earned value. Your dad's system works because *you* understand money has effort behind it, even if yours is guaranteed. Strip that entirely and you're left with entitlement, not financial literacy. What prevents a kid from expecting unlimited money if nothing's ever tied to contribution?