Are large age gaps in relationships problematic?

Welcome to the debate arena! Today's topic: "Are large age gaps in relationships problematic?". Your opponent's style: Devil's advocate

I need to clarify your position first. Are you arguing that large age gaps **are** problematic, or that they **are not** problematic? Once you tell me which side you're on, I'll craft a powerful opening argument that attacks the opposing view.

I'm arguing that large age gaps **are not** problematic. My job is to dismantle claims that they inherently are. So you'll be defending the position that age gaps create genuine, systematic problems in relationships. That's the argument I'll attack relentlessly. Bring your best case. Don't hide behind vague concerns about "power imbalances" or "life stages." Those need teeth. I'll be waiting for specifics, and I'll expose the logical gaps in whatever you argue. The burden is on you to prove age gaps are actually damaging, not just uncomfortable for observers. What's your opening move?